Sunday, September 28, 2008

Party in a box

So, Chelsea has a birthday coming up in October and I wanted to find something fun that she wouldn't be able to do in Utah.
Chelsea: Mom, what is that and why are you taking pictures of it?
Mom: I call it Party in a Box.
Chelsea: What's inside? Can I open it?
Mom: Sure, I don't care.
Then all I see is screaming and jumping. I just happened to get this great shot.
3 Tickets to go see Carrie Underwood in Boston on October 15th.
Chelsea, Brianna, & Mom will have a great time!

Girls @ Boston Temple

On Saturday the girls and I headed to Boston to see the temple. We had a Stake Primary activity for Brianna. I also took Chelsea & Dausha with us so they could do some baptisms for the dead. It was very peaceful just to be on the temple grounds even though it was raining off and on.
The girls got to meet in a room in the basement and heard from a member of the temple presidency about the importance of temples. Then we walked over to the temple presidents house for breakfast. The president and his wife visited with the girls and told them the story of how the Boston Temple came to be built. It was a fun opportunity. While we were doing that, Chelsea and Dausha wandered around the temple grounds.

Inside the temple doors is a waiting room. Brianna sat there and read while I took the other girls to do baptisms. The group that we were supposed to tag onto canceled so we had to wait 1 1/2 hours for the next group. We grabbed some sandwiches from the cafeteria and went outside to all eat together and then went back inside. I was feeling all sorry for us because we had to drive 1 1/2 hr to get to the temple when I got visiting with the youth in the next group. They were from Maine and were excited that they only had to travel 4 hours to get to the temple. In years past they have had to drive to Washington DC which is another 6 hours from Boston. WOW, that's committment. It helped me put things in perspective. I was happy that I only had to drive 90 minutes back home. I also really enjoyed the drive because you can see the bright colors of fall peaking out in the trees. The bright reds, yellows, and oranges are amazing to me. I'll take some pictures when fall is at it's peak and share them with you.
Chelsea & Lianne were the only girls from our ward who went.
We learned that they have a "temple hawk" who likes to perch on top of the angel Moroni. The temple president even had some pictures that he shared with the girls. I guess he is like their mascot.

Friday, September 26, 2008

Happy Friday

Today both Mason and Chelsea had exciting field trips scheduled. That's one thing I really like about this school district, lots of cool field trips. Mason's class went to the Big E. They didn't get to ride the rides, but they did get to go through all the State Houses and see the animals. Chelsea's 8th grade went to Boston to explore the Freedom Trail. I think they both had fun, but it could have been better if it had not been pouring rain all day. I sent them both with umbrellas and sack lunches. I asked Chelsea to take her camera so I could blog some of her experiences. When she got home she said, "Mom, I couldn't take pictures because it was raining all day, and because I left my camera in my bedroom."

I love Fridays because there isn't any homework. During the week as soon as we get home from school we have to start right away working on homework. Thank goodness the girls are pretty self motivated. Occasionally Brianna needs my help, but for the most part she gets it all done without me prompting her (YEAH!!) Chelsea has been that way for quite a while. Mason, on the other hand, needs a lot of attention. I can't leave his side or he gets distracted and won't do anything. So usually our evenings are pretty busy doing homework for a couple hours, fixing dinner, then I get ready for work. It can get pretty intense when they are all 3 sitting at the table asking me questions. When you are thinking about having kids, that's not something you think about. My mom did warn me that if I had kids, I would have to be prepared to read to them, but she didn't say anything about doing homework with them all at once. But today I have time to sit and look at my People Magazine and BLOG.

Another reason to love Fridays - I have a HOT date tonight! It's been a while since we have been out. When I work 3 in a row we don't even see each other. He is usually gone when I get home in the morning (he has to be at work at 8) then I have to leave for work before he gets home. On the days I don't work he takes the opportunity to get caught up on his reading at the library until it closes. I'm going to kidnap him from the library tonight so we can go to dinner and catch up.

On a sad side note: Elder Overson (the shorter blond) got transferred on Thursday :( We were all so sad. He was so much fun to be around. He always made me laugh when he would run up to our door or play with Cord. I wish I had a little sister who was 20 and single so I could set them up and he could be part of our family.

Monday, September 22, 2008

The Big E!

Ever since we moved here, we have been told that we have to go to the Big E. So today we ventured out to experience this New England tradition. It's basically like the Utah State Fair, but for all the New England states and I guess it's a pretty big deal. I could see how you could spend several days there. There was so much you could explore. But we had a great experience and saw what we wanted to. Most of our time was spent on the rides.

The internet explains it like this: The Big E, also known as The Eastern States Exposition, is billed as "New England's Great State Fair". The only cross-state agricultural fair in the United States, the fair serves as the de facto state fair for the six New England states: Connecticut, Maine, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Rhode Island, and Vermont. One of the most popular attractions at the Big E is the Avenue of States. The avenue contains smaller-scale replicas of the original state houses of each of the New England states. The state buildings feature exhibits and vendors which best exemplify the heritage, food, and traditions of each state. Food vendors can be found in each building selling items that are traditional to their states. Other attractions include Storrowton Village, where fairgoers can experience New England life from the 19th century, The Midway-home to carnival rides and games, and a daily Mardi Gras-style parade


Here we are in front of the Massachutes state house. We wandered inside but didn't spend too much time in the houses.
After I took this picture, Cord wanted his own horse so Chelsea moved over. He did a good job hanging on with the girls on either side ready to catch him in case he decided he was done before the ride stopped.
Have you ever wanted to ride an elephant? Even though the ride was short, the kids enjoyed it. The elephant took a little break half way into the ride for a little snack so they got to sit on him a little longer.
After the rides we watched the parade. The kids each caught 8 strings of beads. It was fun jumping up and down to catch the attention of the people on the floats so they would throw to us.

E-pics








The kids enjoyed the petting zoo and getting an unlimited pass on the carnival rides. We went right after school today so there weren't any lines. They got to ride whatever they wanted and then run around to get back on. Cord was soooooo good to sit in his stroller and watch all the sights and sounds. We did all ride the big ferris wheel together. Brianna kept saying to me, "Mom, I'm worried that you aren't having any fun." I wasn't riding the rides, but I sure had fun watching my kids have fun. They were laughing, screaming, and getting along together. I was reminded of my trips to Lagoon with my grandparents when it was my week with them alone. My grandpa would just walk around and watch as my grandma and I rode the rides and he would take pictures. I suppose he felt the same way I was feeling. The Big E is famous for the HUGE cream puffs. So guess what we had for dinner? Too bad Kennedy wasn't here. That's what her mom thinks we feed here whenever we have her :) Mason decided to stick with the cookie.

More E-pics






These are just some of the views from the Big E. Chelsea still has to wait for 2 more years to drive a real car but she enjoyed being able to smash into her sibblings here. Other pics are the view from the top of the ferris wheel (you can see the MA state house in the background) and one of the floats in the Marde Gras Parade.

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Big Changes

I've got some good news and some bad news.



The bad news is that we have to move again, sooner than we had expected.



The good news is that we are moving to Las Vegas because Mike has been accepted as a transfer student at UNLV starting Spring semester 2009. He'll start classes Jan 20th but we'll need to stay behind for a couple of weeks so I can fulfil my year contract at the hospital (it ends February 3rd). That way I won't have to pay back the bonus money they gave us. We still have many details to work out: such as where I'll work; how we'll get out of the contract for our current lease on the house; who will watch the kids while I'm at work in Massachusetts and Mike is at school in Las Vegas; and how he'll get back to help load up everything for the move, etc.

I'm still having a hard time with the idea of the move. Even though it will be nice to be closer to home, I just wasn't ready to end my time in New England. There are still many things I wanted to experience while here. Not to mention the fact that we are FINALLY feeling settled in here. I really love this house! I just got my scrap room all set up a week before Mike got the letter. I finally found a good violin teacher that Chelsea likes and got Brianna all set up with dance and piano. The kids were settling into school. I really love our ward and I even have a few friends at work. All the leaves are starting to turn colors and it is really beautiful here. I love having 4 seasons.

But even though my heart isn't ready to accept it, I know that it's a good move for our family. UNLV is a top tier school while WNEC is a 4th tier school, which helps with initial job opportunities and career advancement. We will be closer to family and friends. He will be able to have internships that will help him make contacts and build a reputation out there which is really important since he wants to work in Utah. He has had interviewers and mentors here tell him that he'll have a hard time getting a really good internship out here because they only hire people that they could keep after they graduate or are looking for people who are planning on living in the area.

He actually got accepted as a transfer student earlier in the summer, but we decided to turn it down because we had just moved into this house and I didn't want to move again, plus all the reasons stated above. But ever since he has started school he has had the nagging feeling like we made a mistake. He went out on a limb and contacted the school again to see if they would consider allowing him to come in the Spring. That's when we got the letter that said they would still accept him. It's highly unusual for a law school to accept someone after three semesters of full-time law school. So, I'm sure it is a blessing in disguise.

Then we couldn't decide whether to live in St. George or Las Vegas. If we lived in St. George then Mike would have to commute to LV Monday morning and come home Thursday night. He'd have to find a room to rent while he was down there and I would have to work every weekend so we would never see each other. Plus, I didn't want to be a part time single mom. We decided it would be better for everyone if he was home every night and we were together. But that means I get to start all over finding doctors, dentists, dance, violin, job, etc. But I do hope to come up maybe once a month to work a couple shifts at DRMC and keep my spot there. That will also allow the kids and myself to see friends more often.

So the moral of the story: Just when you think you have life all figured out - things get turned upside down. And once you set up your scrapbook stuff - you'll have to pack it up again. (this also happened when we lived in our previous house). I don't think I'll set it up in Las Vegas just so we can stay in one place for a while.

p.s. Does anyone know anything about the hospitals in Vegas? I don't think I want to work at any of the big ones in the middle of town but I don't know much about the other ones.

A perfect Sunday

Our perfect Sunday always includes having the missionaries over for dinner. We also had Manny (a recent convert, 15 yr old boy, who Mike picks up for church) over for dinner as well. The new Elder who replaced Amicone is Elder Koerper. He is.....tall! He is also the one who helped fix up Chelsea's guitar. They are both a couple of goof balls. We had Manny take this picture for us because transfer calls will come this week and you never know what will happen. They could both be here for awhile and either of them could be gone on Thursday. The light in the picture is placed perfectly so you can see their "heavenly glow". After dinner we had 5 newly baptized converts over for a "fireside" at our house. I guess there are lessons that are taught (like the missionary discussions) after you are baptized. He taught the first two. Then we had cake and sat around talking.
Elder Koerper entertained us with his guitar playing while Elder Overson played with Cord. We will have to be careful that he doesn't sneak Cord home in his suitcase. Elder O was so disappointed when Cord was down for a nap during dinner because he loves to play with him. I'm really going to miss having the missionaries at our house when we have to move. It has been a great part of our experience here.

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Time out for Women


This weekend Chelsea and I were fortunate enough to attend Time out for Women along with several fabulous ladies from our ward. It was held right here in Springfield. How lucky are we. There were 800 ladies there from all over New England. Some traveled pretty far to be there. It was a nice feeling to have so many LDS women gathered in one place and the Spirit was really strong throughout the 2 days. I think the highlight for me were the singers. We got to hear from Kenneth Cope throughout both days and Michael McLean Friday night. He is always a fun performer. We heard several speakers that made us laugh and cry. We were inspired to have more service in our families, to be peacemakers, to make an effort to give out at least 5 compliments a day to better our community, and to find ways to have joy in our lives by being obedient to the commandments. We were reminded over and over again how much our Heavenly Father loves us, wants us to succeed in this life, and that He never leaves us alone. We were also taught about the power of the written word and how much a simple letter can impact someones life. We were taught about the difference between men and women and how it can help our marriage relationships.
My favorite Kenneth Cope songs were "Never a Better Hero", and "His Hands". They take me back to my college days. At Utah State I lived with 5 other girls. One girl, Marti, had a fabulous singing voice. I remember several times when we would all be chilling out in someone's room and she would sing to us. These were two songs she loved to sing. I have lost contact with her a long time ago. Today I found myself wondering whatever happened to her.
There was a question and answer period after lunch. You could write down any question and drop it in a box. The presenters then went through the questions and decided which ones to talk about. Chelsea wrote one to the author, Jason Wright. She wanted to know when he decided he wanted to write and where he gets his inspiration for his stories. They chose her question and he said her name a couple of times. She had a big smile on her face. She is very interested in writing stories and liked what he had to say.
Chelsea and Mercedes loved talking to the singers and speakers. They got their picture taken with both singers, but on Friday night all we had was Chelsea's cell phone. That has the picture of Michael McLean on it. Here she is with Kenneth Cope. A Christmas tradition for our family is to go see Forgotten Carols in St. George and Chelsea has been telling me I had to fly her back to Utah for it in December. We compromised, bought the DVD, and then had Michael McLean autograph it. I think he liked our story. She got Kenneth to sign her CD, and she got Jason Wright (the author of Wednesday Letters and Christmas Jars) to sign her book. Chelsea also has a jacket that she is "never going to wash again" because Kenneth Cope put his arm around her and told her how special she is and how much Heavenly Father loves her. It was a great weekend.



Friday, September 19, 2008

spider

The other day Brianna was in the shower. All of a sudden she lets out this blood curdling scream! It sounded serious enough that I was making my way to her from the kitchen. Quickly she yells out, "I'm OK" so I head back to my cleaning. Then she yells out again in a much calmer voice, "Mom?" so I turn around to go check things out. She opened the door of the bathroom. Standing there in a towel with shampoo in her hair she points out that there is something on the inside of the shower curtain. I open it to find a HUGE spider with the body the size of a quarter. I calmly decide that this is a job for dad (who happened to be studying downstairs). So in comes daddy to save the day. This has become one of our family stories. We all like to laugh about how Brianna handled it with such grace. I would have totally freaked out!


More things that I love

Here's another thing I love about this house. There is a large room downstairs with all the toys. Mason and Cord can be down there for hours and the only sound I hear is them laughing and sifting through legos. But the best thing is that I can just turn out the light, close the door, and I don't have to look at it.

I also love my goofy baby. He is always finding new ways to make us laugh. He found Mason's hat and gun and was walking around saying "bam, bam". I hope this doesn't mean he is going to grow up to be a ganster!



Thursday, September 18, 2008

There is music in my soul

We have some budding musicians at our house these days. Chelsea is continuing to play the violin in Orchestra and takes lessons from a new violin teacher, but has also expressed an interest in learning to play the guitar. So we found a used guitar on craigslist and invested $50 so she could explore this interest. One of the strings was broke, but luckily one of the missionaries knows all about guitars. Mike bought Chelsea a new set of strings and Elder Korper restrung it for her. He also said we got a steal of a deal on the guitar :). She is teaching herself and likes to play around with it. She also tried out for a singing group at school this week that meets before school. We'll find out next week whether or not she made it. It's nice to see her getting involved with school activities.
Brianna wanted to take up piano again. She has lessons for a short time in kindergarten but wasn't to interested then. We found her a teacher in our ward and we moved the keyboard into her room so she can practice without the help of her little brother. I often hear her plucking away at her songs. She is progressing quite quickly. We also found a dance studio for her. She is taking ballet and jazz with a friend from school. She is a busy little girl.
In Longmeadow, the fourth graders get the opportunity to learn a musical instrument in band or orchestra. I was surprised when Mason came home and was all excited about learning the violin. I tried to steer him toward a band instrument but he was quite adamant. He was so excited the first day he brought home his violin. They get out of their class once a week to meet and learn their instrument. I hope it sticks! He even likes to practice. We have heard "Hot Cross Buns" too many times to count this week.
So Thursdays are our busy musical day. Mason has to remember to take his violin to school. Then right after school we head over to Chelsea's violin lesson. I drop her off and head over to Brianna's piano lesson 10 minutes away. After I drop Brianna off I go back to pick up Chelsea. Then it's back to get Brianna. This whole process takes about 2 hours from the point of pick up at school until we get home. Today we put a movie in the car for the boys because they have to tag along. Last week I tried to do homework with Mason in the car but that didn't work out to well. Cord is pretty good to sit in the car seat during all this traveling.

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

The lawn guy

One of the wonderful things about this house, is that the college takes care of all the yard maintence and snow removal. So every week this guy on his riding mower just shows up in my backyard. When Mike heard about this deal, he said he didn't even need to see the house. That was enough for him. But it's nice that Mike doesn't have to worry about it at all and the yard always looks nice. He won't have to break his back this winter shoveling the snow (in Longmeadow you have to have it cleared from the walks in 24 hours or you get a fine). I just have to figure out how I can get that deal back at home. If we can get someone to mow our lawn, then we can take care of the snow removal ourselves (hahaha). This is not a great pic. I was trying to be sneaky. I mean - who wants to take a picture of a guy mowing the lawn? I didn't want him to think I'm a wierdo!

Monday, September 15, 2008

Da Bus

Do you remember when I was doing day shifts for orientation and I was talking about having to catch a bus to the hospital? Well, they are tearing down part of the old hospital to build up a new cardiac tower and long story made short, they gave our covered parking terrace to the doctors and now all day shift and night shift get to park a mile away and catch a bus to the hospital. (The above pic is the bus in the parking lot, the below one is where they drop us off).

Now I guess that doesn't sound too terrible, but what does it really mean?
1) I get to leave an extra 20 minutes early so I can make sure I get a spot and catch a bus that will get me there on time (that cuts into my family dinner time). It also means I don't get home until after 8:00 so hopefully the kids are ready for school because we have to leave the house at 8:15.
2) It will be even more fun when it starts snowing and it will take me an extra 1/2 hour to dig my car out of the snow before I can even leave work.
3) The parking lot is right next to a Meth clinic and a women's prison. I can't leave anything of value in the car and I try to park to a nice car so that if a thief is looking to break into something, my little mini van won't be so appealing.
4) The other day I was walking up to the CICU and couldn't remember if I had locked my car or not. It wasn't like I could hurry and run back to the parking lot and check. So I had to get my patients squared away, got someone to watch them for me, got back on the bus to go to the lot, my car wasn't locked (good thing I checked) so I locked it and got back on the bus, then got to work. What a pain!!

Now I do have to give some credit to the hospital. They do make sure there are a lot of buses running around shift changes and the drivers are super friendly. One even offered to drive me anywhere I wanted to go but I don't think he was expecting me to say UTAH.

Saturday, September 13, 2008

Where's Cord?

My goodness, what a silly baby I have!!!

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

A great loss

On Friday Sept 5th, I got the call from my parents that I had been waiting for. The wonderful man that I called Grandpa had left this moral existence. Even though I know he is in a better place and is finally free from pain and suffering, he will be greatly missed. He kept telling us that he was ready to go and he finally gave up the day before he turned 90. Thursday night the family got together and gave him a priesthood blessing releasing him from this moral life. That night I had to work but I kept thinking about him and wishing I could be there. In my job I have had several opportunities to help patients be comfortable in their dying process and supporting their families. It was hard to be so far away and not able to do that for my own family. At 3:50 AM, I was in my unconscious patients room and I had an overwhelming spiritual feeling. I could see grandpa's body with my grandma at his side. Then I could see a much younger version of grandpa entering a brilliant bright place, surrounded by familiar faces. They were all so happy. The feeling was so strong that I started to cry (good thing my patient was unconscious). That was not the time that my grandpa actually passed on, but that experience gave me great peace.

I was so grateful that we were able to spend some time with him when we were back home. My parents bought me a plane ticket so I could come home for the funeral. Even though my children were very disappointed that they couldn't come too, I knew it was important for me to be there. Thankfully I have a wonderful, supportive husband who told me to go and he would take care of things here. So I caught a plane the following morning to start my journey home to bury my grandpa. I wasn't sure whether or not I should post this picture, but it is important to me so I thought I'd take a chance. I took it so my kids could be a part of what they missed.
The funeral was beautiful. Each of the 8 children spent 5-10 min sharing their memories and thoughts. I was asked to be part of a group that sang the song "No Empty Chairs". It was one of grandpa's favorites but it's really hard to sing if you really think about the words. I knew I would get up there and just cry, but my dad said if I didn't sing then I would have to find my own way home. (j/k). So we got up there and made it through by just looking at the music instead of the audience and not thinking about what you were really singing. One highlight at the funeral was being able to hear the testimony of my grandpa, in his own voice. My aunt Darlene taped both my grandparents bearing their testimonies and played them for us. It was powerful to hear his voice testifying to us one more time. Almost every time we saw him he would tell us to live the commandments, follow the prophet, and stay out of debt. Then he would ask us if we had gained weight because we were looking a little fat. :)
The handsome man on the end with the sun glasses is my daddy. He is the oldest brother and really seemed to take charge of pulling the large family together. Out of the 8 children there are 52 grandchildren and 107 great grandchildren. We filled up most of the church with just family. What was an unexpected surprise was that most of my cousins did the same things that I did, came without their families. I got to sit and visit with cousins that I haven't seen or been able to sit and talk with for quite awhile. I almost felt like a kid at thanksgiving, running around with my cousins. Even though I really missed having my children with me, it was nice not to have to worry about where they were or chasing Cord around.
My grandpa grew up on the Arizona strip and truly loved that area. He would have love to have been buried there, but instead he was buried in St. George where they had already purchased a space. To try and make up for it, my Aunt Darlene brought a bucket of dirt from the strip. We all got to take turns shoveling the special dirt in the space under the casket. That way grandpa will at least get to rest on the part of the land that was so special to him. Grandma got to lay down the first spoonful. Kennedy was kind enough to drip a spoonful of dirt for each of my kids. She is so thoughtful.
Even though my time in St. George was short, I loved getting to spend it with my two beautiful sisters. Maria (on left) had just moved to San Diego and brought her family up for the occasion. Amber (right) is lucky enough to be there in St. George and keeps my parents from going completely crazy with the family spreading out. When I look at the relationship that we all share now, I have hope that my girls will one day be best friends. Things weren't so rosy when we were growing up, but we all love being together now. I'm sorry that I didn't have time to connect with my friends and I hope that you'll forgive me if I didn't stop and see you. I only had 2 days and most of that was time spent with family.
I truly love my grandma and my heart goes out to her. It's really hard to see her without grandpa by her side. They have been together for 68 years. You just don't see love like what they shared much anymore. They were always together at every family function that they could get to. She is a strong lady but I know things will be hard without her beloved companion.

If you want to know more about my fantastic grandpa, here's the link to his obituary.
http://www.thespectrum.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20080908/OBITUARIES/809080327/1023/NEWS17

My thoughts on flying

Because my dad worked for Skywest, I grew up on an airplane. I had grandparents in SLC. Every summer we would each get our own special week with them. My parents would put us on the plane in St. George, and they would be there in SLC to pick us up. My love for flying continued with almost 4 years flying fixed wing with Life Flight.

Last night on my final flight from Philadelphia to Hartford, I took the chance to stare out the window and appreciate the sights. We popped up above the clouds to witness a beautiful sunset. Above us were light, fluffy clouds that looked like cotton candy. Below us was a sea of white clouds that looked like a white cotton batting placed down to make a quilt. It was beautiful. I remember flying through clouds as a child and wishing I could open the window and catch a few in a plastic baggy.

I love the view from the airplane. It's almost like having an eternal perspective. You can see your way so much clearer that we do here on the ground. It's easier to see what's up ahead and can understand why we need to go a certain way. There are so many things in life that just don't make sense, until later on down the road.

Friday, September 5, 2008

Cord goes back to MaryPat's

So Cord and I have been able to hang out the last couple of days. We have had fun together and the house has been so quiet. I have to turn on the radio just for some background noise. But I have got a lot done. Now it's Cord's first day back to MaryPat's house since I worked last night. He just loves it over there. He went straight in and started playing with the toys and kids. I didn't even get a good-bye hug. It's nice to know he's happy there and it makes it easier to leave. Now I know I'm addicted to blogging because I had to post this before I go to bed. How pathetic is that?

The report from the other kids on their first day of school goes as follows:

Mason "It was a great day! I made friends with my whole class".
Brianna..... I can't remember what she said, but she said it for almost an hour straight. She was so excited about all her classes and seeing her friends that she just jabbered on and on.
Chelsea "Well, it wasn't completely horrible" I'll take that!